How to Get what you want

"The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way. Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down; For the Lord upholds him with His hand" Psalm 37:23-24.

The secret of our outer success is desire. You must know what you want, feel it deeply and believe it. The three attributes of passion, belief and desire are the power wheel to getting what you want. When you exercise your will with actions to satisfy your desires, your desires become stronger. The more you persist the more you believe and the more you feel.

By taking action to get what you want you strengthen your belief. The world will not believe in you until you believe. Those who think big or desire big draw even bigger obstacles to overcome. If you are patient and persistent and continue to exercise your will to fulfill your desire, you will succeed. It is not always what you do but what you want, feel and believe that counts.

Action is required to bring to fruitation our desire but it does not have to wear us down nor does it have to be a struggle. Once you have learned to access your inner intuition and confidence you will not have to push so hard or take big risks to attract success. Doing too much is sometimes the result of not believing in your power to attract and activate success. By relying fully on doing to achieve many people disconnect with the belief that they can get what they want.

The fire of passion once ignited attracts great and brilliant ideas. Whenever we push ourselves to our limit we feel our limit by experiencing negative emotions. When we push to our limit and then let go, we are turning it over to God. Regardless of your particular orientation, when you let go after doing everything you can, you will receive what you want.

When we experience our spiritual connection with God it becomes easier to remember that we are not alone and that we are helped. God is Spirit and He wants us to worship him in truth and Spirit (John 4:24). Having confidence that we can do something is trusting that our intended outcome will occur. If you can turn it over to God each day, but continue to direct, you do not have to push that hard at all.

To have success we cannot expect God to do everything. We need to feel responsible for our desire and ask God for help. To attract and create what we want we must be able to feel and release the negative emotions that naturally arise when we really want something and do not get it. When we are right with God, what we want is what God wants for us. To know God’s will for us we must open our hearts and then simply ask ourselves what it is that we want.

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How not to disconnect from your true Desires

Recognizing and honoring all your desires is the basis of finding your true self. This involves recognizing your soul’s desire, your mind’s desire, your hearts desire and your body’s desire. Staying in touch with and honoring all your desires gives you a clear direction in life and ensures personal success. Honoring a desire does not mean you have to act on it.

We however create in our lives blocks that interfere with the process of our establishing our true desires. John Gray in his book “How to get what you want and want what you have” suggests twelve ways in which people disconnect from their feelings. These are revenge, attachment, doubt, rationalization, defiance, submission, avoidance, justification, rejection, withholding, reaction and sacrifice. He suggests dealing with such feelings as follows;

1) Get mad not even- When we feel the need to hurt or make someone suffer, we are not in harmony with our true nature of being loving. By learning to release blame with forgiveness you free yourself from the tendency to waste your energy and power in trying to get even. When you let go of revenge you take back your power to be happy and fulfilled within yourself without depending on the outside.

2) Give up attachment and keep desiring- When our hearts are not healed from a loss, like that of a relationship, we continue to hold on to what is no longer available to us. When we learn to let go, accept and trust change we clearly experience that every change no matter how tragic always opens the door to more.

3) Doubt your doubts- To access your creative power to solve problems and create what you want, you have to starts from uncertainty. By shifting doubt into uncertainty, you are free to begin believing again in the possibilities that exist. Most anxiety is caused by believing our fear instead of remembering that we really do not know. Letting go of doubt allows you to focus on what you want rather than waste your power resisting what you do not want.

4) Recognizing your rationality- We block feelings of our true desires by rationalizing away our true desires. If we can take time to write down our thoughts, feelings, and desires we can listen to what is going on inside. Rationalization can cover up our feelings of remorse which allow us to self correct. We may do something that hurt others but by rationalizing we deny our souls’ desires to be

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